Toli Dee Walling

life story

A Loving, Caring, Fun and Free Spirited Mom and Grandma

Toli had a saying that she lived by "Enjoy Life to the Fullest". Not a year passed in her life without her accomplishing just that. She was always optimistic about everything. Her desire to have wonderful friendships brought her joy in many people that she was so grateful for. Her three grandsons' were her entire heart and she always made sure that they felt it.

While no words can get rid of the loss that her family feels, we find comfort in knowing that her life in Heaven is full of all the joy she deserves.

About Toli, the wonderful woman we all love

Born on a Wednesday, October 23, 1946 in Santa Ana, CA, she was one of three siblings. She lived in Santa Ana all her life having met and married Danny Walling in April 1966. They raised their two daughters' together up until 1989 when a divorce was decided on. A lifelong friendship ensued between them years after the divorce and they both got to enjoy seeing their daughter's marry and becoming grandparents together. Toli always made sure she was a present grandma.

She passed away with her oldest daughter Kim and two (of 3) grandsons, Darius and Marquas by her side. (including son-in-law Burt and extended family Tiffany) She was surrounded with all our love as she made her journey into heaven on a warm and sunny Saturday afternoon, May 31,2025 in Rancho Cucamonga.

Toli was diagnosed with liver disease in early 2024 but the symptoms remained mild over time. That is until April 2025 when a hospital visit determined her liver was officially in failure.

She kept her usual optimism so strong during those last 7 weeks. Her famous saying "it's all going to be okay, don't worry" became our daily mantra together. Her strong determined will was present every day of this journey. She was such an amazing example of strength that we will forever remember.

She is survived by her two daughters: Kim Smith and son-in-law Burt Smith / Alisa Brown and son-in-law Arthur Brown

Her sister: Laurie Myracle

Grandson's: Layne Brown, Darius Brown and Marquas Smith.

Her mother Mabel (Cradit) Myracle, father (Glenn Myracle) brother (Brian Myracle) and our dad; Danny Walling (ex-husband) all welcomed her into heaven.

She was deeply loved by all who had the privilege to know her. Her constant thoughtfulness for others touched many lives and we are grateful to have been a part of hers.

memorial service

"Parties" planned for Toli (her choice of words by the way)

We will host two parties to celebrate Toli. Depending on the location that is best for you, we hope you can come and celebrate her wonderful memories with us.

1. Rancho Cucamonga on Sunday, 8/17/25 at 1:30pm; where she lived with her family.

Location: contact Kim Smith at (951) 907-7704

2. Orange County on Friday, 8/22/25 at 11:30 am; where she was born and raised.

Location: Garden Grove Elks Lodge- 11551 Trask Ave, Garden Grove, CA 92843 (714-534-1952)