Retha Jane Nelson

life story

A Loving Mother and Friend to All

Her Light Shone Brightly-

Retha entered this world in Wichita Falls, Texas, as the eldest of her siblings—a natural protector and leader who guided them through life's storms with unwavering strength. Her early years were marked by hardship, yet she never wavered in her focus on faith, family, and above all, love. That foundation carried her forward, touching countless lives along the way.

For most of her life, Retha built deep roots and cherished memories between the borders of Minnesota and Wisconsin, where her family remains scattered today. She was a force for good—a lighthouse for the lost, drawing from her own struggles to guide others to safety. No wonder she adored lighthouses; she embodied one, offering hope and encouragement to carry on, no matter the darkness.

A Lifetime of Music and Compassion-

Retha's passion for music ignited during her studies at the University of Wisconsin, evolving into a lifelong calling of singing and teaching. She inspired generations at Mustard Seed Academy in Wisconsin, nurturing the musical talents of her own four children and many more. Choir director for multiple congregations, she even led a joyful holiday recital at her assisted living community just one year before her passing. Music wasn't just her gift—it was her way of sharing love with the world, right up to her final days.

In human services, Retha found profound purpose. As a crisis counselor, she took immense pride in supporting those in greatest need, transforming personal trials into a beacon for others adrift at sea.

On Monday, November 3rd, 2025, Retha completed her journey peacefully, surrounded by family and friends.

She is survived by:

Her four beloved children: Daniel, Kevin, Amanda, and Timothy

Eleven grandchildren and five great-grandchildren

Five siblings: Sharon, Barb, Marie, Karen, and Jeanna

She was preceded in death by:

Her parents, and siblings Carol and James (Jim).

Retha loved unconditionally—her family, her friends, and if you're reading this... she loved you too.

memorial service

Funeral Service

November 22, 2025

Living Word Lutheran Church 4300 Nicols Rd, Eagan, MN 55122, USA

11 AM - Visitation

12 PM - Funeral Service

Light Repast - After service